Stop Overthinking Your Message And Do This
- Apr 10
- 4 min read
If you are wronging yourself, judging yourself, shaming yourself, or beating yourself up for not having it all together, for not having your messaging clear, for not feeling like everything is perfectly in place for your one woman business, then stop. Stop that now.
I wanted to come on here today to say this. I have cracked the code on my own business messaging, and it has taken me years. Years to get super clear.
I know who I’m here for. I know who I’m aligned with. I know who comes to me and seeks my guidance. I know who you are. But getting clear on what it is that I actually offer felt like a no brainer, and yet it took me years to see it.
Why? Because we are a work in progress. And when we are working on ourselves and doing our work in the world, we don’t always see the impact we are having. We don’t see the transformation happening within us. We are in the blind spot of our own growth. And that very transformation is what is serving others. That is why people are coming to us.
Clarity Comes From Becoming, Not Forcing
So here it is, up on my new banner. “I spark creative leaders and change makers to bring big visions to life.” Because that is what I do.
It has taken me all this time to really get clear on that. And maybe you’ve noticed my banner changing over the last year. Sometimes it’s a beautiful image. Sometimes it’s my name. Sometimes it’s an affirmation or a direction of where I am. And right now, I feel ecstatic.
Because this is what I do. I really do. And I know it because this is why women come to me. This is what my book is all about. Casting your spell. Casting a spell with a big vision for your life.
The book holds six realms. Six realms that are changed, transformed, and alchemised through menopausing and croning. Longevity. Health and wellbeing. Money and financials. Our billionaire light and the collective. Mother healing and joy. And your one woman mission, vision, and business.
These are the realms we are all working with. I tuned into this deeply a couple of years ago, especially through Divine CEO Magazine. Those realms were the foundation of that magazine. The magazine is no longer in print, yet the book is here.
Your Work Is Already Speaking. You Just Need to See It
The book is my take, my feeling, my soul knowing. My inner absolute knowing that these are the arenas of life we want to polish like a diamond. We want to bring them fully to life so we can serve more deeply, live more greatly, and open our hearts more expansively to the light and love that is always here.
And yet we are the ones who block the flow.
So if you’re not clear on your messaging, or not clear on what you bring to the table, don’t go looking too far outside of yourself. Don’t try to copy others or get overly granular with niching.
Look at what you do. Look at what people come to you for. What is the general essence of why people seek you out? And what lights you up?
This landed for me when I was working on my About page. I realised how much energy I’ve devoted to creating bodies of work. My music. Six years. Four albums created with my husband. Healing music infused with love and intention.
Then my Ommmayzing Me children’s mindfulness programme. A beautiful body of work. A joyful offering for children and families. Then Divine CEO Magazine. My radio show. All of it.
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Your Message Lives Where Your Energy Is
Creativity has always been at the core for me. I have helped many women one on one, and that work is meaningful. And yet it’s not where my heart lives. My heart lives in creativity. In getting my hands in. In transforming and transmuting something from the invisible into the visible.
I love doing that. And I love doing it for a real purpose. My purpose is to inspire and empower women to do the same.
The book is the foundation. It’s how I see the vision unfolding. My work now is to bring leaders into this work, to live it, and to share it into the world. You can use the book for yourself. You can use it for your community. It is a living body of work.
And back to messaging. Your energy. Your light. Your auric field. Your consciousness. That is what people are drawn to. That is what you are here to bring into the world.
Tune into what lights you up. I love creating projects. I love working with people who are creating projects. I love teaching and sharing my body of work so others can carry it forward. That lights me up.
I know I’m a sparker. I spark women. My insight creates a shift in perspective, and it lands.
Own It and Let It Be Enough
So tune into that for yourself. And if one on one work isn’t aligned for you, give yourself permission to let that be true. There are endless ways to serve the world.
The messaging comes when you own who you are. Throat chakra.
Have I said too much? Maybe. But that’s the message.
Blessings, light, and love. And remember, cast a new spell for your life right now.
Like and subscribe. Leave a comment. What are you casting a new spell on? What is your message? What are you here for?
Let’s get this conversation going.
Cast a New Spell is your guide to working with these six realms.
This is not just a book. It is a living body of work.
Over 440 pages of teachings, practices, and the emerald light meditation that anchors it all.
You can use it for your own life.
You can use it within your business and your community.
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